tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-22102498.post4058259591771170770..comments2023-10-30T03:27:46.361-05:00Comments on The Java Mama: Are you Expecting???beckylbranchhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11365921931248029429noreply@blogger.comBlogger18125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-22102498.post-48862433730303995062013-01-11T10:20:18.392-06:002013-01-11T10:20:18.392-06:00Adults should have more sense than to ask a questi...Adults should have more sense than to ask a question like that. Idiots. LWLHhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13975262231105253072noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-22102498.post-30756693608141005002013-01-11T09:37:13.315-06:002013-01-11T09:37:13.315-06:00I get this alot! I have 4 kids the younger two are...I get this alot! I have 4 kids the younger two are 14 mos apart so I never had a chance to get my body back....in a period of a week I had a cashier,an aunt I rarely see (at my nieces baby shower) and my own dad all ask me...lets just say they all got told that unless you see me crowning that is never an appropriate ? to ask....lol...and I now wear all black/dark clothes 99% of the time... Nicolehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18204133015453288881noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-22102498.post-48071514458622644652013-01-10T20:52:37.649-06:002013-01-10T20:52:37.649-06:00That should just be something everyone knows not t...That should just be something everyone knows not to say. unless they are like 9 months and its blaringly obvious or they are in active labor, DON"T ASSUME, people! Ugh! :) You should just look at her belly area, and say no, are you?! lol Jen @ That's What She Readhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10153687739451709094noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-22102498.post-90806476582504023832013-01-10T10:10:16.192-06:002013-01-10T10:10:16.192-06:00Um...you do NOT look pregnant! CRAZY!Um...you do NOT look pregnant! CRAZY!Aishlea https://www.blogger.com/profile/06114621005013210967noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-22102498.post-77211038037191434382013-01-10T09:21:47.788-06:002013-01-10T09:21:47.788-06:00That stinks... I understand when kids do it, but a...That stinks... I understand when kids do it, but adults should definitely know better. <br /><br />The pictures of your little boy are absolutely adorable! Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11983959802378587038noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-22102498.post-18453776238648511302013-01-10T07:35:27.947-06:002013-01-10T07:35:27.947-06:00You are so not alone! I've been asked at least...You are so not alone! I've been asked at least four times this year, and I'm not expecting either. It is so embarrassing and heart breaking for me, because I can't get it under control! And honestly, I know that I could just say no and walk away or embarrass them, but more often than not, I just say, yes and walk away. I don't want to be embarrassed even more or have the people in line behind me snickering too!Mrs. Harveyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06115405656659414278noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-22102498.post-8593589273688605882013-01-09T23:56:28.156-06:002013-01-09T23:56:28.156-06:00I've only had the pleasure of this experience ...I've only had the pleasure of this experience once. I was ordering a Virgin Pina Colada & the waitress made some comment about, yeah I missed alcoholic drinks when I was pregnant too. I just stared at her and explained that I'd be driving. She sent the manager over with a second free drink. LOLRebekah @ Chronicles from the Peanut Galleryhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13073935181015498072noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-22102498.post-42506755345193557452013-01-09T22:11:40.408-06:002013-01-09T22:11:40.408-06:00Wow. Not really sure if I'd slap her or drop k...Wow. Not really sure if I'd slap her or drop kick her first...Life By Lexhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13902800543527848351noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-22102498.post-30185627912548803212013-01-09T14:55:59.294-06:002013-01-09T14:55:59.294-06:00Unless actually you see a baby exiting that woman&...Unless actually you see a baby exiting that woman's body, that is a question that should NEVER EVER be asked. EVER! Eh hmmmmm... Sorry.<br /><br />I really like the black & white of Connor. It stinks that you're little man is sick. Dieting/exercising really sucks when you're sick as well. Oh, who are we kidding? Dieting/exercising stinks no matter what. But I'm wishing you lots of success with the Biggest Loser program.<br /><br />I'm doing Weight Watchers, and most of my daily points were gone by 7a.m. That's not good, but it was so sweet of my son to have an omelet waiting for me when I woke up. How could I resist?? Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14214160428759882271noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-22102498.post-61224383649612227342013-01-09T14:26:27.284-06:002013-01-09T14:26:27.284-06:00Yeah, I would never, ever ask someone if they were...Yeah, I would never, ever ask someone if they were pregnant, no matter what...seriously! I wish more people would adhere to this rule of not asking :) I love that black and white photo of Connor. Adorable!Dan and Lizhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00707278620844859051noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-22102498.post-71311309900864682792013-01-09T12:51:58.428-06:002013-01-09T12:51:58.428-06:00When my daughter was two, my husband, her, and I w...When my daughter was two, my husband, her, and I were walking through Home Depot when an older couple (probably my grandparents age) stopped us and remarked about how cute our daughter was, etc., etc. She then looks at me and says "And your about to be a big sister!" Which, she was not, I was just still carrying my baby weight from her. We just stood there mouths opened and without saying anything, walked off. We got in the car and I bawled. Of course, my husband totally didn't get it and didn't understand why I was so upset. Thankfully, it was a little motivation to get back to running, something I had given up years ago. Still, it hurt and I will probably never forget it. Like you said, people need to keep their mouths shut. Even if a woman looks like she's about to give birth on aisle 9, I never ever say anything! Amberhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03337651523007347736noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-22102498.post-36935483662020624582013-01-09T12:16:02.333-06:002013-01-09T12:16:02.333-06:00Ugh. I agree. Once at a family gathering my husban...Ugh. I agree. Once at a family gathering my husband's grandma told his mom that she looked pregnant. My mother-in-law is near 60. She did not need to hear that either.<br />Even when I know people are pregnant, I wait for them to bring it up in case they have something going on that they don't want to discuss. Liz Bottshttp://www.lizbotts.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-22102498.post-48374742720118542792013-01-09T12:06:16.116-06:002013-01-09T12:06:16.116-06:00And this is why people should just keep their mout...And this is why people should just keep their mouths shut.Why Girls Are Weirdhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10206388129869459115noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-22102498.post-32252316028857157702013-01-09T11:55:35.873-06:002013-01-09T11:55:35.873-06:00I normally give a fake date. Seriously, the last t...I normally give a fake date. Seriously, the last time a woman asked me when I was due, I said, "December." Yeah, it was only a few months back. For some sick, twisted reason, I don't want the person to feel bad for having offended me, so I just go along with the whole..."You look 60 seconds shy of delivery" routine. 123https://www.blogger.com/profile/02524665781289749457noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-22102498.post-39153551596159310842013-01-09T11:43:14.576-06:002013-01-09T11:43:14.576-06:00I never ask anyone if they're pregnant unless ...I never ask anyone if they're pregnant unless they're obviously ready to pop! Some people have no social graces! Clearly the BBB lady is one of those people! I was in Verizon once, very shortly after my daughter was born...I'm talking maybe 2 weeks. She was with my in the stroller-obviously a newborn. Some lady asked me when I was due. For realz lady??? Uh, this is just my mom pooch from having a baby 2 weeks ago. Ya know, this baby RIGHT HERE??!?? So I get it ;) Katiehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00782533450751702438noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-22102498.post-19363724924162912972013-01-09T11:28:06.274-06:002013-01-09T11:28:06.274-06:00Here's my canned response. "No, I just e...Here's my canned response. "No, I just eat lots of carbs. I just ate spaghetti!" They look confused, but I hope they think twice about asking again. LOL! <br />Seriously! I once had a service person ask me this and, no, they did not get a large tip that day. Paigehttp://www.sortasouthern.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-22102498.post-65827059822483696132013-01-09T11:25:09.392-06:002013-01-09T11:25:09.392-06:00I know how you feel. It has happen to me more tha...I know how you feel. It has happen to me more than once in the past few months. Yes, I know I am carrying my extra weight in my stomach so please don't point it out. Christyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12766175884605441912noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-22102498.post-42990338564287072742013-01-09T11:11:25.126-06:002013-01-09T11:11:25.126-06:00Oh girl! Been there dine that. I need to jump on t...Oh girl! Been there dine that. I need to jump on the weight loss challenge. As far as pic, I love the top one!Jessicahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17145265773155920690noreply@blogger.com